viernes, 13 de diciembre de 2013

Treatment for suit and tie fetish.



Treatment for suit and tie fetish.

Treatment for fetishism by wearing a suit and tie and by seeing other men dressed in suits and ties:

Do you remember when I told you that the cure of any homoerotic fetish was in subtracting erotic power to the libidinal object?

And that the only way to achieve it was wearing the fetish as long as it was not a source of sexual arousal to you?

But is it possible to wear a tie without it causes you sexual arousal and unwanted erections?

It would appear at first sight that there is no possibility due to stimulation of the neck, but of course that it is possible as soon as one is aware of as it may affect having the collar buttoned.

The person may realize how tight is the shirt collar lifting his neck and thus know if the collar tightens him or not.

The tighter is the collar, the greater is sexual arousal and unwanted erections. As evidence is the erection of the penis and the preseminal fluid that is released after buttoning up the top button of the shirt and tying the tie around the neck.

Returning to the beginning

How can you subtract the erotic power to the libidinal object (suit and tie fetish) if when you wear it, this causes you sexual arousal?

Remember when I said that what we get aroused about ourselves, we will get aroused by seeing it in others?

And if not, if we don't get aroused by wearing suits and ties, we will not get aroused by seeing other men wearing suits and ties.


So what's left to do? The thing is simple.

The treatment for fetishism is to wear a tie without that causes you sexual arousal.

How is this accomplished?

Contrary to what I said: "Wearing a tie too tight or having the top button of the shirt buttoned can provoke sexual arousal."

1) When a tie is loosened, sexual arousal is null, since there is no physical stimulation that stimulates your neck that provokes you sexual arousal.

2) When you wear a shirt collar larger, sexual arousal is almost null, since there is no physical stimulation that stimulates your neck that provokes you sexual arousal.

If you want to wear a tie without it arouses you, you must wear it loosened and without fastening your top button of your shirt or wear a shirt size larger. Thus, you won´t feel sexual arousal.

You can realize how tight is a tie or a collar lifting your neck, so you know if the tie or the collar tighten you or not. 

When you not get aroused by wearing a tie, you won´t get aroused by seeing other men wearing it, and fetishism by the suit and tie will be over.

Here the following is true:

"Nobody goes in search of what oneself already has" as long as what oneself already has isn´t a source of sexual arousal.

Otherwise, if you get aroused by wearing a suit and tie, the condition is not met, since for you to wear a tie is a source of sexual arousal, even though you already have the tie.

If you still get aroused by wearing a suit and tie, you will go in search of other men who wear suits and ties, according to which "We only look for in another man that which arouses us about ourselves."

This is the cause of what is now commonly called homosexuality, which would originate in narcissism or homosexual fetishism, i.e. the own person is a source of sexual arousal for self, whenever he wears this or that object.

We therefore conclude that this is the first step in treatment for fetishism by wearing a suit and tie:

Wearing a suit and tie, with the loosened tie and the top button of the shirt unfastened.

Or wearing a collar larger. 

Just as in the images:

In the picture below the collar must have a wider aperture that the profile image. A half inch more is recommended.




Most of men who wear suits and ties report that they do not get aroused by wearing suits and ties, if they wear a shirt collar larger buttoned or wear a loosened tie without buttoning the top button of the shirt. In this case, if you wear a shirt collar tight and you feel any temptation to fasten your top button of your shirt, just cut the button, and so the temptation will be over.

Finally:

All who wear a TIGHT collar buttoned feel sexual arousal, and throughout the day, they have unwanted erections. As is also true that the person who wears a suit and tie masturbates to get rid of sexual desire. Button a TIGHT shirt collar and wearing a tie around it are the flame that ignites sexual desire, leading to additional paraphilias to the fetishism by wearing suits and ties.

Sexual desire ends once oneself masturbates or through submission or domination of oneself (BDSM), as a way to get rid of the sexual tension coming from the wear of a tie around a TIGHT shirt collar fastened.

Fetishism by wearing a suit and tie can be combined with other paraphilias, fetishes or BDSM.

As to fetishism and sexual arousal for your socks and dress shoes, or for  any clothing different to the necktie.

It could be due to two things:

1) May be due to the material they are made your shoes and socks.

It is known that wearing nylon socks causes sexual arousal due to smooth and soft material of the socks that stimulate the feet.

The same applies to shoes, being that most of shoes are made of leather, when in contact with your feet, there is some stimulation of the same, which would result sexual arousal and unwanted erections.

2) It can also be due to the proper wear of a suit and tie.

I mean, it could be that your shoes by themselves do not create any sexual arousal, but in some cases that I have tried of formal shoes fetish often accompany the wear of a suit and tie.

The reason is that while you wear a suit and tie with a TIGHT collar shirt, sexual desire covers all your executive attire , which makes that dress shoes, cufflinks, executive socks, a vest, a jacket and everything else are sexually exciting. Therefore, many men who wear a TIGHT collar shirt every day end up being fetishists for the accessories that belong to the business attire.

Therefore, if any part of the executive attire arouses you, is because when you feel sexual arousal by the wear of the tight tie, your libido covers of sexual energy all your executive attire.

The tie would be the cause of sexual desire for the accessories of a suit and tie without showing any indication of being it.

So to conclude the treatment for suit and tie fetish is:

1) Wearing a suit and tie with the loosened tie and with the top button of the shirt unfastened.

OR A BETTER OPTION:

2) Wearing a suit and tie with the top button of the shirt fastened, ONLY if the collar is not tight.

This is the only solution to fully integrate the libidinal object in oneself and so, subtract the erotic power to the libidinal object, which in this case would be the tie.

**Additional Important note added the December 13, 2013.**

I have to be honest with you, men who wear suits and ties properly, that is, with the top button of the shirt fastened and the tie adjusted (ONLY IF YOU WEAR A TIGHT SHIRT COLLAR) will continue arousing you.

If you choose to wear a suit and tie with the loosened tie and the top button of the shirt unfastened, in such case, only you will not get aroused those who wear a suit and tie with the collar unbuttoned and the loosened tie, and men wearing suit and tie properly will continue arousing you. If you want that men who wear suits and ties properly don´t get aroused you you have to choose the second option:Wearing a suit and tie with the top button of the shirt fastened, ONLY if the collar is not tight. 

This is the only way that men who wear suits and ties properly don´t get aroused you.
Written by Rafael Medina.

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